to remind you of the cost of the phone bill when they had teenagers in the house! Is my joy in God? Is he my highest delight? I suggest that when you first believed, he was. Similarly, is your first love—not your football, your mates, your gym, your children or grandchildren—but your spouse? Everything else has its place, but, only after we remember our first love. In later chapters we will consider how this ‘first love’ can be rekindled in marriage. Repent Repentance is both saying and being sorry.